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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 16.06.2025 01:00

How does one succeed in life?

Ask yourself:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What do you think of the controls that will be set up over information flows at Taiwan's Ministry of Foreign Affairs' missions?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Which current F1 drivers should switch teams based on historical patterns?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What are the possible reasons for people feeling depressed after the holiday season? Why does being alone exacerbate these feelings?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How will the 2026 delimitation affect India as a whole keeping the new count of 888 seats in mind (not the current 543)? I’m looking for genuine answers with facts and not rhetoric. I will only listen to answers and not reply to any of them.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

What can I do to deal with disrespectful children?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What is your favourite true story to tell at a party?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Procrastinates a lot.

How does someone start doing urban exploration?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Does not procrastinate.

What was the weakest period in US history in terms of military strength? Was it during World War II or the Vietnam War?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Making more friends is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What would it take for you to consider yourself a "Swiftie" like Flavor Flav?

That's it for today.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why would calling me an incel help anything? How does that solve anything? Why can’t you actually be helpful and offer productive honest advice?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

How do I confess to my crush who had a traumatic past with his previous partner without losing the friendship?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What I need from you?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.